Sometimes, guys tend to be selfish with their love by doing whatever they want, even when it hurts their women.
They knowingly hurt their women and later come back to say 'baby, i'm sorry, i'm trying my best to love you'. Uhmm that's really sad and funny.
How can you try your best to love someone if you keep lying and cheating on them?
How can you say you love someone but your attitudes show something else?
If you don't feel comfortable when the person you love hurts you because of their selfish interest, then you would stop hurting your women and start loving them the way they need to be loved and not the way you want to love them.